Thursday, August 11, 2011

you are not alone

 No. 9, Jln Seri Pagi 7, 
Saujana Utama,
47000 Sg. Buloh,
Selangor.
7  August 2011.

Dear friend,
I really hope that you are in good condition. I know that you are under depression, but please I am your friend and I don't want to lose you because I know that you will not do the wrong thing in your life. I know everything about you because you did told me before. Why did you tell me? Because you trust me, then you told me about your ownself. I know that you love your parents, family and friends. So do I. That is why, I don't want to lose you. Just a few minutes to read this letter. Please don't feel that you are alone and nobody cares about you because I am always by your side and support you in everything you do. Before you do something bad, please think about other people that love you, they will feel really sad if you leaves them including me. Bare in mind that everyone want you live as a normal one, God loves you and He gives you this opportunity to live in this world and feel the life.

I know that you are still depress when first read the first paragraph, let me share with you a story about somebody. His story always makes me cry whenever I think about him. This guy was my boyfriend. He always feel that he is alone and one day he met myself and we become closer after 2 months. When I was a friend of him, he always told me that he felt he is the unlucky person live in this world. But that time What I can do is just calm him and I always said something that makes he felt he is the one that always makes me laugh until one day he said that he want me to be his girlfriend. I know that he need someone and I try my best to be somebody to him so that he will never feel alone because he came from a broken family. He lived with his mum but his mother never take care about what he and his sisters need.

One day, when I just finished my class someone came to me and said that he want to suicide. I ran up to the school building and luckily he still alive and I was afraid that he might jumped the building in front of me. I try to save the situation and try so hard to calm him. I felt release after that because he did heard to what I was saying. After that incident, I spent most of my time with him so that he will never feel alone and depress. After that incident, he suddenly become  to be someone that really different from himself. He become closer to God and he always said that we have to be a better person from the day before. He teach me and brought me to really know God and really know our responsibility living in this world. He teach me a lot about knowing God and about our responsibility towards our religious. He brought me to the bright side in life and I really thank him.

My friend,
Let me tell you the reason why I feel so hard to forget him and all the memories about him. After he change himself from bad to the kind person, an accident happened in front of me. I was waiting for him at the roadside opposite of him. I could saw his face that time was so happy. My phone suddenly rang and at the same time I heard a crash and when I looked in front of me, I saw him. He was laying on the road with all the blood all over him. I was shocked that time and quickly ran towards him. When we arrive  at the hospital, he was placed in the ICU. Its really hurt to see him in that condition. But I always pray for him.Hope that he will feel a bit release. I didn't know why but I felt pity towards him and sometimes I could feel that he will leave me.

I really felt sad when I saw his mother came to the hospital and then she cried. I heard that she felt really guilty and hope for his forgiveness. I met his mother and she told me everything that happened on the day he wanted to meet me. That morning, she said that he asked his mother to spend her weekend with him and his sisters because he really feel lonely and no one care about him in this world. And the answer from his mother really made him feel so happy because she promise him to celebrate his birthday on Sunday. But the accident happened just after he came out of the house and to see me. I really feel lonely when he died. He died just after I told his mother about him and what he feel towards his mother and I also told her about he tried to suicide. And she really regret about what she have done to her children.

Lastly before I end my letter, I just want you to know the reason why I tell you this story. It is just because I want you to really appreciate this life and don't try to suicide anymore. Because when you died, many people that really love will feel just like what I feel right now. It is not as easy as that to forget the thing that happened to our love one because when we love someone and he left us, we will feel like our life also meaningless and died with him. Last but not least, please think twice before you do something out of your mind.

Last from me, bare in your mind that I always love you as my friend and I always pray for you. So, don't make me feel sad once again and don't make me feel disappointed. Last word, love you.

                                                                                                                                      Yours sincerely,
                                                                                                                                          Shafiza









Sunday, August 7, 2011

the miracle of GREEN TEA

GREEN TEA



Introduction
Green tea is not like tea that we usually have every evening, but green tea is different because it give us a lot of benefit when he drink it. Most of the people don't like green tea because of its bitter taste that can't reduce even you already put 10 spoons of sugar. Green tea is originates from China and has become associated with many cultures in Asia. Many varieties of green tea have been created in many countries where they are grown. This varieties can differ substantially due to variable growing conditions, horticulture, production processing and harvesting time.

Why I choose this article
The reason why I choose this article because I do love to drink green tea but must added with lemon juice. I love to drink ice lemon green tea because the green tea itself give me relaxation when I really feel it. This article is very useful where people who don't really know about green tea. It tell us about the speciality of green tea, the benefits of green tea and the harmful effect of green tea. Don't think that green tea doesn't have the harmful effect when we drink it. All this we can read in the first page of the article. In the next page of the article, it tells us about some more benefits of green tea and also it teach us how to brew a cup of green tea.


Synopsis of article
The green tea give a lot of benefits to the person that drink it. Green tea can reduce the risk of esophageal cancer besides it can also inhibit growth of cancer cells. Green tea also give 'green tea lovers'  some other benefits rather than cancer cells. It also can burn calories in our body, prevent tooth decay and green tea also can prevent food poisoning. This is really miracle. Not only coffee can harm the person that drink it, green tea also have the harmful effect to the person who drink it too much. Drinking too much of green tea can lead someone to have insomnia because green tea also have its percentage of caffeine. But the percentage of caffeine in green tea not as much as in coffee.

Opinion
In my opinion, I really love to drink green tea and I prefer to have green tea as our daily drink rather than coffee. I agree with this article. Yes, I admit that green tea do have its own benefits to its lovers. So, do not waste our time to think and your money. Just try to have green tea once as your drink and feel it deeply, you will feel release.

Conclusion
Green tea bring a lot of benefit to the person who drink it. But to have it as a drink it is really hard for those who never try it. But once you try, you will love it and want to have it again.




zombieland


Introduction
This movie is about a guy named Columbus become a hero unexpectedly. He is on his way to go back to his hometown to visit his parents. But his parents already died because of the mutated strain of mad cow disease that turned people into zombies. He loses his car and luckily he meet Tallahassee. They try to find the way out of the zombieland. They stop at a grocery store and they meet two sister, Wichita and Little Rock there.  The sisters con them into handing over their weapons and steal their vehicle. Later, the two men find another truck loaded with weapons, but when they meet the girls again, the girls attempt once more to steal their truck. Columbus proposes a truce and suggests they travel together. Lastly, all of them become a family.


Moral Values
From this movie, Zombieland directed by Ruben Fleischer i can see some of the moral values really related to our own life. First moral value is, we should appreciate our parents and family when they are still alive. This can be shown when Tallahassee have to accept his son's death even feel so hard to accept the fact plus he really loves him but we can't run from death. Secondly, we should not be greedy and should be grateful with what we have. In this movie, we can look at the two sisters as the example.  They both keep cheating and taking advantage on others, because they never feel enough with what they have. They want to be rich but they are lazy. 
Next, we should be strong in all the time because we never know what will happen next. we can't plan and we don't know what problem will come to us. In this way, we should always be prepared, in order to feel relax in the most critical situation so that we will not feel stress and afraid of the bad things happened on ourselves. We also should never easily trust the strangers. Not all people that we meet by the roadside is kind. Most of them have their own strategy that we don't know what will they do to us. So, don't talk to strangers.


Character I like the most
The character that I like is Tallahassee. He is a really brave and determined person. Although he is living in the hard situation where people will choose stay at home is the best way but he choose to go out to fight the zombies that caused his son's death. He travel a long journey to kill the zombies.  Wherever he stop, he will attract the zombies to come to him and then he killed them. He is a determined person. He lost his child because of the zombies, but still have the strength to kill the zombies even he will cry whenever he missed his son. Tallahassee also a kind-hearted person. He didn't do the bad thing to the two sisters although Columbus and himself had been cheated so many times by the two sisters. If I were in his shoes, I will ignore them when they face the zombies. But Tallahassee, he didn't do what I think I want to do.


Personal Opinion
Zombieland is a movie that makes my mind full of question mark at first. But, when I start to understand what is going on in the movie, it makes me laugh and sometimes I feel angry because of Wichita and Little Rock. Their behavior really makes me feel angry when the movie shows that their lives is full with cheating people. Overall I think this movie is not bad, maybe I want to watch it again next time.


Conclusion
From this movie, I can conclude that people need the strength to do anything that we want. But sometimes the strength didn't come out from ourselves, it is come from the people that we love. When we think that we have to do something to revenge, then the strength come and lead us to succeed. Next, do not talk to strangers and please do not treat strangers as your friend. In our life, we also have to learn to be grateful and understand the real meaning of grateful. So that we will not do something  bad or stupid for our own benefit.

Thursday, July 28, 2011

summer to autumn









Introduction


First thing first, this movie is not just the same as the above title. It is '500 days of summer'.
Most of the time in our life, the reality that happen on us always different from what we expect.
Life give us the opportunity to feel everything in this world. But most of the time everything that happen is cruel thing because it happens on us without mercy. This movie really related to our life.
It starts when a guy named Tom Hansen feels his life is nothing and unexpectedly Summer come into his life and make his everyday full of happiness. He starts to expect more and hope that his life would end with happiness with his beloved, Summer. They start their relationship just as a friend but what do Tom expects is more than just a friend. On the Summer's side she believes that love is messy and will hurt people. Summer doesn't believe in true love and she don't even want a boyfriend. But lastly, their relationship stays there just as a friend when Summer married to another guy and left Tom heart-broken alone. And life is sometimes fair to us, when Summer left him, Autumn come into his life out of his expectation.
Just like stated up there saying that life is not happen just the same with what we expected. Most of the time life make us cry. But don't blame life in everything that happen. It is depends on ourselves to solve our own problem and get well with the thing that left a scar on our heart.


Moral Values

  • We should be professional in solving any problems.
  • We should not let our personal problem mixed with our job.
  • We should also take good care of our relationship with the people around us.
  • We should take care of other's feeling before we do something that involve the person his/herself.
Character that I like the most

I like Tom Hansen even his physical appearance do not make me feel "wow'!... but his strength and his ability to be a friend of Summer that lastly hurt himself a lot.
And I like him because he didn't give up when a bad thing happen onto him but he try to start his new life and forget about the past.

Personal Opinion

This story is a heavy one. It is not  suitable for the kids under the age because they will not understand what is happening to their seniors. About the plot, we have to really focus when  watch this movie. Because the message that want to deliver to the audiences is indirect.
I admit that I still can't get the full message of this story even I had watched it twice. :')... I really want to know how Summer met his husband before he purpose her.

Conclusion

This story is about life based on the message that I got. I want to say that the story is really brilliant because of the message. And I really love the ending when Tom met Autumn, means that life is not cruel but life is fair and full of secret because we don't know what will happen to us the next day, next week, next month and in our future.

Last word : Congratulations to everyone because all of you had tried to understand the message of the story and good job guys! TATA!!! 




Sunday, July 24, 2011

the power of time

          Time... What is that? Do we have to care about the word spelled T.I.M.E.? Sometimes time really make people feel stressful because every single thing in this world always use time as the limiting factor. So as the person that always depend on time in doing anything, i would to say that time is really important to us. And i also want to say that, we are really lucky to have time in our daily life. Because without time, our life will be unorganized.

          The importance of time in our life is time can make us be an organized person. Some people would said that, the person that able to manage their time well is a successful person. How true is this mind-setting? Ok, lets take a look at this. All of us in this world were given the same time per day. We have 60seconds per minute. 60 minutes per hour. 24 hours per day. Average, 30 days per month and 12 months in a year. For example, we are Muslim and we must pray to Allah 5 times a day. Sometimes people they said that "oh, i have no enough time to solat." Ok fine, just think it back why you can't but others can. The answer is some people, they know how to manage their time in doing their job and so do their responsibility to Allah. So, there is no such thing as 'not enough time' in our life.

          Time also can make people feel frustrating. For example, if you are given 45 minutes in a test and you are unable to finish it, you will feel stress and frust because time act as limiting factor in this situation. Honestly i say, yes i felt this feeling not only once and it is really frustrating because when the time is over we are not able to complete the test even we have the correct answer of all the questions. So, in a test, we also have to plan our time to make sure we answer all the questions. Sometimes stress and frust can drive people crazy. 


          People also can change when time change when they realize that their life in this world is not long lasting and will die any second. People change, for example when someone that they love have to struggle to fight with the disease that lead to death, they will know the true meaning of love, appreciate, sacrifice, lonely. And this will teach them to be someone better than their old one. They will really appreciate the remaining time with their love one while they still breathe in the air into their lungs. This is the positive change of a person when they face something bad in their life. But what if the person change and become worst than before the calamity. This is the negative change because they feel really stressful with what they have to go through. It is true that time can change people but it is depends on the people themselves whether they change in positive way or the negative way.


          Time is a really priceless thing in the world. Without time our life will become unorganized. Time is always changing. Time never stands still. Time is continuous, and not stationary. Time changes our perceptions, and our perceptions of time change continuously. Time is infinite; change is essential to time. We also can change just like that change every second. But please our changes should be the positive one and don't ever dream to change to the negative one. Ok, last word, live happily and appreciate the time that given to us before we have to say goodbye to the world.


Really last word : TATA and see you again in the next post! ^_-

Saturday, July 16, 2011

malaysian and non-malaysian

ok let me tell the truth...
it is really embarrassing.. truely embarrassing...

date     : 15th JULY 2011
vanue   : KTM Sg. Buloh

i arrived at ktm station around 4.40pm from ktm seremban
mom : hello..
me : ma,, eja dah sampai ktm..
mom : ok then wait there... i'm on my way...
me : ok ma... TATA

i was standing a bit far away from a family.. they are foreigner
they are 6 person in the family..
the parents and 4 children.. 2 boys and a girl with a baby...
they were waiting for somebody i guess...
only their father was standing at that moment.
and suddenly i saw him(their dad) walked to a 'something' and picked that stupid thing.
he walked towards the dustbin and threw it.
it's a wow!!! seriously i was ashamed with what had he done...
this is MALAYSIA and he is not MALAYSIAN.

ok thats it..
next story...
i saw my mom's car..
get into the car and step onto the accelerator..... yeay,,, the car is moving!!!
i was not the driver ok..

at T junction.
signal to left.. and go!
a taxi in front of our car..
chit-chating with my mom...
lots of story.. about people at ktm, in komuter, just like milo fuze!!!
suddenly my mom and i saw a red small plastic bag came out from the taxi in front of us.
from the driver side.
she looked at me and so did i...
she smiled and me too...
this is truely TYPICAL MALAYSIAN!!!


last word : i'm not typical malaysian... and please who read this post don't be typical malaysian! TATA!!!

Friday, July 15, 2011

a good listener (AGL)

it is not easy to be a good listener........
listening is a skill and not everyone in this world have the ability to listen well.
but we can follow the steps to be a good listener here,, just click!!! :')

http://ezinearticles.com/?8-Keys-to-Being-a-Good-Listener&id=2452983

the important thing to be AGL is be patient and listen carefully to the point that told to you.
if we suddenly lost focus and don't know what is giong on,, don't be shy to ask,, ok?
but in listening , one thing that we must avoid the most is INTERRUPTING...
it's rude!!!!! so don't be a person that people hate the most... HAHA,,
to listen,, everybody can be...
but to be a good listener,, not every human being can be that...
so, practice can help us to be that person,, just follow the steps...

last word : TATA and GOODNITE!!! sleep well and have a nice dream.... ^_____*